Common Civil Ceremonies

To help you in deciding what you would like to include for any ceremony, I provide resource materials including examples of readings, poems, and vows, along with information and guidance on all the legal requirements. When you are not sure exactly what it is that you want, I can make suggestions and provide ideas for things to include that you may not have considered.

Your marriage ceremony is at the heart of your wedding day, and I understand how to ensure that it is warm, memorable, sincere – and representative of you as a couple.

The legal requirements of a civil ceremony take up very little time, and most couples like to create the rest of the service to suit themselves by including special rites that highlight and express their feelings.

First I learn about both of you, how you met and fell in love, and your visions for the future. Then I help to prepare, compose, rehearse and solemnise your marriage in a beautiful ceremony that expresses all that you want to share. Together, we tailor a ceremony to encompass all relevant elements, making it meaningful and appropriate to you both.
For example, you may want to find a way for children from other relationships, or other family members to be involved and included in your wedding ceremony. There are many ways to do this, and I can help find what feels right for you.
My service includes:

  • A free initial consultation to discuss your requirements, and for you to assess whether I am the right fit for you as a celebrant
  • Completion of Notice of Intended Marriage (legally required at least one month and one day prior to the ceremony, and valid for 18 months)
  • Resource material to assist you in creating your perfect wedding ceremony: apart from the few legally required components, it is completely up to you what you include
  • After making a firm booking, unlimited phone or email consultation plus one face-to-face consultation to create a ceremony that is truly authentic in its reflection of your commitment to one another
  • A rehearsal or run-through of the ceremony, preferably 7–10 days prior to the wedding day
  • Souvenir copies of your wedding ceremony, order of service and any readings
  • Completion of all legal requirements

A commitment ceremony is an expression of your love and commitment for each other, without having a legal agreement. Just like a wedding in other respects, it is a public affirmation of the love in your relationship and the importance to you of its continuation in your lives. Unlike a legal marriage, it is an option available to any couple wishing to commit to one another in a meaningful ceremony.
Just as for a marriage ceremony, I consult with you to learn more about both of you. Together, we tailor a ceremony that will be meaningful and appropriate to you and your relationship. My service includes all of the above points with the exception of the legal requirements.

Making a Renewal of Vows, whether it has been just a few years or many decades, symbolises the immense love you share as a couple and your continued commitment to one another. You may wish to repeat your original vows, or to compose new ones to reflect your growth as a couple. For some, it is a chance to have the dream wedding that, for whatever reason, they were unable to make happen the first time; for others it is an opportunity to relive the happiest day of their life.

Naming Ceremonies
Naming ceremonies are a beautiful, contemporary and non-religious way to welcome a child into a family and a community. A celebration of the promise of this young life, it is a delightful avenue for communicating wishes and bestowing blessings from family and friends. Together we create a ceremony appropriate to your family. It can, for example, include older siblings or other family members if you wish.

A naming ceremony may also be an appropriate celebration for a person of any age who has undergone a change of birth name.

Funerals are our way of saying goodbye to a deceased person, and of celebrating the life that has passed. Although painful and distressing, they can also be a way of sharing positive memories with family and friends. Often a funeral can bring an insight for the mourners into the myriad aspects of the deceased person and his or her life, as stories are shared.

I conduct each funeral with compassion and empathy. I help the family to express their sentiment without sentimentality, bringing together all the elements needed to give everyone the opportunity to say goodbye with love.
Often funerals are conducted at short notice and we may only have a few days in which to create the ceremony. I am mindful of the need to give you an outline of the agreed ceremony early enough to allow time for printing the order of service.

“I once was asked to officiate at a wedding that was never to be. In a terrible turn of events, the groom died two weeks before the planned ceremony, and I was asked to conduct the funeral instead. My first ever funeral, it was incredibly painful and distressing, but it was clear that this was something that was hugely important to the man’s family and the family of the bride-to-be. On the day of the funeral, I recognised the clothes his fiancée was wearing as the outfit she had originally planned to wear to their wedding. It was on that day, amid such sorrow and feeling such compassion for everyone who was there, that I realised that I had something important to offer, and that funerals had now become a part of my service as a Civil Celebrant.”


Anniversaries are a celebration of another year, or a special year in your life. A wedding, special birthday or any other kind of anniversary may be worthy of an especially festive celebration. As your celebrant conducting a ceremony for this event, I help to give the emotions surrounding the day a focal point, highlighting its particular meaning for you.

Retirement is a time to reflect on how far you have come and all that you have achieved in your career, as well as a time to look forward to new possibilities. Marking this momentous change in your life with a ceremony, shared with work colleagues, family and friends can be a wonderful way to celebrate your transition from worker to retiree.

Contact Carmel : – 0414 725 978 


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